Family Action Checklist: Separating School and Personal Digital Identities
Family Action Checklist: Separating School and Personal Digital Identities — Bend Privacy Alliance
Bend Privacy Alliance
Family Action Checklist: Separating School and Personal Digital Identities
A companion piece to “What School-Required Technology Means for Your Family’s Privacy”
Last fact-checked: July 10, 2026
Part of the School Tech Privacy series
This checklist is one of several pieces from the Bend Privacy Alliance. See the full collection — including the plain-language explainer, the Grandparents’ Guide, the Youth Guide, and ready-to-send letter templates for your district or your child’s team or club.
This checklist assumes you’ve read the companion explainer, or at least the short version: a school account is often required, a private personal email can help but can’t override it, and the real leverage over what a school-required platform collects sits mostly with the district. This piece is about what’s actually in your hands today, while that larger conversation with your district plays out.
None of this requires technical expertise. It requires a few habits, repeated consistently. (The boxes below are just for your own tracking as you read — nothing is saved.)
Start with these five steps today
The sections below are a deeper, fuller version of the same idea.
1.Keep the school account for school only
2.Give your child a separate personal identity for things your family chooses
3.Separate school and personal activity at the browser and device level
4.Don’t feed extra information into school-managed tools
5.Teach your child what a school account actually is — without alarming them
6.Do this periodically, not just once
7.Secure the personal account on its own terms
8.Keep a simple record as you go
For teachers reading this
If you’re an educator rather than a parent, the same logic applies from your side:
When you’re ready for the next step
This checklist covers what your household can control directly. For the things that live with the district — what’s actually enabled on your child’s account, what third-party apps are connected, what a specific vendor does with the data — see the companion “Ask Your District” letter and, if a fuller answer is needed, the formal Oregon public records request template. Those are built to get you real answers from the institution that made these choices, rather than asking your family to guess.